Sounds familiar? everyone at one time or another will feel this way..I'm feeling it often. YA YA YA...its good in away that ppl paying attention to u,helping u in anyway they can or possibly could. A gf might do things for her BF, a BF might do thing for his GF or even between HUSBAND and WIFE...
BUT
DO U THINK THEY EXPECT SOMETHING FROM U? DO U THINK THEY WANTED U TO DO WAT THEY DID FOR U?
I know some of u will disagreed with my answer...but my answer is YES!!!
They will want u to do the same things for them or to them, they wanted to get the same treatment like wat they given u , and when they dun get it, they think u ungrateful, never take your initiative and such... I mean y would they wanna us to do thinks we never do before? y they wanna compare us just because their ex did all that before and y they wanna even bring up this subject at all...U say I love u ,cos u meant it.not because she wanna hear u say it...than which means u say it cos she wanted u to say it...
So...for me,i never wanna be indebted,to any body and not even to my own parents or relatives...i will worked on my own, i will get on my own..... cos to me UNCONDITIONAL LOVE is the best LOVE to get,but not everyone can give u that...
so , to all couples out there, never expect your partner to be wat u wanna be, cos it wont happen and wont last...and never never be indebted to anyone cos it will be a matter of times, u will be call,ungrateful,never use your initiative and even they will start to demand ! SO..if u never indebted to them, u dun mind saying no or rejecting them...but wat if u r indebted? can u say no? yes u can...but its hard......
Never treat someone like your world, cos u die alone...... and when u die, u leave the world and everything that's in it..........
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Yes. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE is the greatest form of love anyone can expect to receive. in any relationship, when we start to expect repayment or to change him to be who we want him to be, that's when it is doomed to fail, from the start.
i totally agree with you that not everyone can give love self-sacrificially. the world is not made up of martyrs only. this is a fact of life. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE can only come about when each half is mature, realistic and self-sufficient in the emotion department.
however, UNCONDITIONAL LOVE can only be proven over time. so, in that while, you must withhold judgement and give her a chance to prove her love for you.
you have shown UNCONDITIONAL LOVE when you did things because you want to, not because you are expected to. this much is very clear.
question is: will you give her a chance to show you UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and accept it without a shadow of doubt? i hope you will...
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