We say the pledge every morning while in school and we say those words every single day, we pledge that we never differentiate the RACE/LANGUAGE/RELIGION as we are all Singaporean and we are all human,cut any race and colour and the blood is still red..
I have come across this topic over and over again, cross culture marriage and relationship.....WHO TO BE BLAME? the couple? the society mindsets or our parents? Parents tend to forget the fact that as long the couple respect each other culture and religion,nothing can go wrong bout it.......We all believe in GOD.yes we all DO! in a certain time...do u think GOD never think of these problems might arise one day? do u think GOD is so naive that he makes different religion and colours and make sure they dun mix and get together ? Of cos he did and i dun think he wanna tell his children that u can only love your own kind...i think that's rubbish...LOVE is universal and i dun think so GOD wan us to suffer just because of language/race or religion.....Most of us, are born into the religion and some seek to find their belief in later years but most stick to their parents belief till death..
We seen a number of cross culture couples and most of them i seen are happier than the couples who married their own....not to disrespect anybody or family,but u can see it yourself......
God nvr wants his children to suffer and def finitely every parents wan their child to be happy with the chosen partner,the only problem in cross culture marriage is wen either 1 is a staunch CHRISTIAN ,CATHOLIC or MUSLIMS.....these posers more problem than any...cos of the believe and the way they brought up..... If GOD feels that this person is better off marrying a different race, i guess he will one day do that.......
I go with my heart and i will follow wat my heart says...when my mind is set, not even anyone can change that.....GOD....this is your child begging u and asking u ...IS IT A BIG FAULT TO FALL FOR SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR OWN??
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we most treasure that which we have to work the hardest for. cross cultural marriages have many obstacles to cross. if the partner is worth working hard for, the union will be most loving.
that is probably the reason cross cultural marriages are happier than most who marry within their own kind.
There is no "own kind". To think so, is narrowminded and ignorant.
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