I am what I am

At first i dun think of this as a problem but i guess....its really a problem now.I realised it first when CHEF SITI commented on my behaviour,she says something like..Andri,i know u are not someone who flirt but your friendliness towards the opposite sex is sometimes too much that it can be seen as u are flirting and giving them hope....did i? maybe i didn't realised but maybe i did...

Maybe my friendliness is too much,but that's how i treat guys or gals alike,I'm always like that.SHOULD I CHANGE? if changes is easy, i change long time ago,if being friendly is bad, should i stop being friendly? I DUN WANNA BE SEEN AS A FLIRT!

I was just being nice and being me,does not mean after ppl know me from TV,i have to be stuck up like some of them...I'm not even a star or a celebrity,I'm just being WHO I AM AND WHAT I AM!!!!!

Gal or Guys to me is the same, i treat them the same and no difference at all,at time i do even kiss customers or friends on the cheek( not guys la) the one that i have feeling for will be the one to see tia and tia have to like her...cos if she dun like her than no point of being together,I will listen to tia,she is my eyes and my mouth....she will be the one choosing not me,cause i can adapt to whoever she choose but she might not be adapting to whoever i choose.....

So please dun judge me for my behaviour,cos I'm just a man who at times makes mistakes......

Argument is healthy

The couple that fights the most is the one most in love... it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring




Its been awhile since i update the blog and i came across these versed written by a divorced mother of 2 kids,HOW TRUE IS THAT VERSED?

Most will not agreed but i strongly believed that its Damn true.....we all argue,quarrel and fights at times in relationship and its all because we noticed the fault or mistakes that been done, and wen we say it out or point at it?thus the argument erupts and than u start making your points and explain...Argument is healthy babe,if your partner just leave u alone and follow whatever u wish for..i suggest he or she gets a DOG.

Wen we argue, we want our partner to know and realised,we are not happy with Wat she did or say,2 adult in a relationship will have argument and trust me its healthy cos at the end of the day....U GUYS KISS AND MAKE OUT( passionately..lol)

Even our teeth and tongue at times makes mistakes and bite each other.....

Me @ work

My sis drop by with her hubby for a celebration and she took pictures of me in action.The one place that im very comfortable at....KITCHEN...Its my world,my place and my home......

AYU magazine write up

Sorry for not updating the blog so long, Recently i did a food column with AYU MAGAZINE a new lifestyle mag..I like the interview , the food i did and the photo taken of me and the food....

SAYUR LODEH WRAPPED WITH CABBAGE
KETUPAT WITH PRAWNS AND GARLIC SAUCE
RENDANG IN RED CHILLI AND LINGUINE PASTA

They ask me to do the traditional malay food and play with the idea of cooking and representing it... hope u like the pic and the mag out since last month...lol

My Life

The Best Life

My Life

The sufferings
The joys
The worries
The dreams
I promise myself to try
I promise myself to go through
I promise myself to accept without prejudice
Embrace courage
Embrace learning
Embrace actions
Fulfill life with love
Fulfill life by paying grace forward
Live with resilience now and forever
With no regrets
With no fear

LONELY CELEBRATION

After 1 month of not so complete fasting, comes the big day,,children looking forward to it,mum busy cooking and dad with last minute maintenance of the house....everybody in my family was watching tv and giggling away except ME.

After work,i came home and straight to the room, lying and feeling down.. i dun understand y too...TIA wont be with me, and the feeling of loneliness struck so bad.

On the day itself... i lie down on the bed without even coming out to eat,i miss going out with just my family... i know that i only get that feeling in 2001 but that 1 time with my own famliy really makes a differnce and with tia not with me, i felt worse.....some frens asked me out but i lied and say tia is with me, im going out with parents and bla bla bla....im sorry

I JUST DUN FEEL LIKE DOING ANYTHING EXCEPT SLEEPING......GOD it feels so bad and sad and i hope.....it wont happen again