It happen too often and too frequent!!!!

What i meant by IT HAPPEN TOO OFTEN AND TOO FREQUENT is when ever i had problems or i think I'm going to have a problem, i become so agitated and getting pissed for no obvious reason.I get frustrated easily and i think the cutting down if nicotine intake make it worse..

I pity those around me, its not their fault but asking the wrong question or comments will easily make me angry and flare up for no apparent reason,i dun like talking on the fone or meet anyone during this time i will work/sleep/work/sleep.

I guess its the frustration that i have in me that trigger this odd behaviour maybe cos i dun share and nvr will share my problem...( its just me)

To those ever experience this treatment from me, I'm sorry....the problem i face and going thru is something i cant resolve nor fight.I just have to go thru it with my head up and wide smile..just because im CHEF ANDRI!!

Its suck to be where i am now and sometimes i just wish im just ANDRI and not THE CHEF ANDRI...

Ur My Everything

Look at her, a beautiful child created by GOD for a man like me..What else could i say bout her.A beauty in a making,a lovely but can be a bit MANJA little gals.I have people telling me that i pampered her too much and she is a spoilt brat in the making,Every time i hear that,i just smile and answer to them..IF I DUN PAMPER HER,WHO ELSE SHOULD I PAMPER?

My last blog i talk bout WOMAN CHARTER...Yes i admit i have to spend or spending alot of Tia,but i nvr blame nor regret even abit.She is innocent as far as im concern and what ever amount of money i gave was supposedly to be meant for her and her education...

Tia grew up in my eyes from a child to a young gal with a mind on her own,believe it or not some of my decision in life is inspired by her and at times she is the one telling me what to do or what decision to take..

I spend quality times with just her so that i can give her my up most attention and times, mind u ..i was not even allowed to on my computer or sms too often while i was with her ,if not she will say ..Y daddy u always so busy?

MARRIAGE is still a NO NO for her.. she still wans me for herself and only herself( maybe its because my ex somehow make her feel that way after she remarried in 2005)
Tia now in Pri 1 and coping very well in school and goes to religious class on every Sat and that's leaves SUN always for us...

We spend lots of SUNDAY together and im afraid to hurt her if i brought along a fren with me too often. Kids is the most innocent human on earth as their heart and mind is like a white sheets of paper and the colour will keep adding on when she grows up.....TIA is a direct replica of me and that's make me feel comfortable,I wan her to be wise in education as well as street smart in life.... We all need a balanced of both to go thru this life ...LIFE WAS NEVER A BED OF ROSES,EVEN IF IT IS..THERE IS STILL TORNS IN THE ROSES TO BE WARY BOUT.......

WOMAN CHARTER ---------<--@

HOW MANY KNOW WAT IS THIS WOMAN CHARTER?



The Women's Charter was passed in 1961 to protect the rights of women and girls in divorced proceeding.Usually this law will make sure woman have they say in most things, MAINTENANCE,CHILD SUPPORT, PERSONAL SUPPORT AND THOSE RELATED TO NOTHING BUT MONEY TO THE WOMAN...

U noticed y i highlighted 1961 . That's when the law was pass out and never change till now..WTF!!!!1961 MEE SIAM COST 30 cents only.... Its been awhile they never change the law and i guess it should change now.In 1961 all married woman are housewives but in 2009 some woman draws more pay than man.In 1961 woman abused/child abuse by drunk husband is often told ,in 2009 some man are abused by wife and infidelity from a wife is on the rise and yet the STUPID LAW NEVER CHANGE OR REVIEW ,THUS IS UNFAIR TO SINGLE DAD OR EX HUSBAND!!!!!

In these modern society some woman climbs higher than man in corporate ladder,they earn more and wear the pants at home, but when it comes to divorced,they seek help from WOMAN CHARTER AND BE A VICTIM .I and thousand over more was a victim to them, having to obliged and pay our ex wife... basically for ex husband to call them unfair is just so right and accurate...look at the statue, the woman carry a weight with her eyes close.....wat does that means?IT MEANS THAT THE LAW IS BLIND OR THE WOMAN IS BLIND!!!! screw them !

Single dad wont have a hse to stay,cos single mom got custody,single dad have to pay maintenance to kids and wife when the woman got custody but wen the man had custody..the woman does not need pay the man ,every time when the woman feels poor and need a pay rise, they dun have to ask their BOSS,they just ask WOMAN CHARTER and they have a case to proceed with the man ...THESE ARE SOME OF THE ISSUE ,I WANTED TO TELL U MORE BUT I TIRED AH!

For me and most ex husband in SG ..we r maintaining a 5k commitment with a 1k salary...possible? F*%k !!! of cos not possible.. I was ask by the court to cut down cigarettes and i can have more money to pay my ex..U know wat i felt like telling the judge? U BETTER KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT BEFORE I SHAFT THE CIGARETTES UP YOUR ARSE!!! but i never say of cos..u think i crazy ah?

For now i just pay wat i was expected to pay for TIA and its getting more n more expensive and in the end,i dun even have enough for myself..TIA is getting more and more expensive.........
This is one reason y i never talk bout marriage and such cos i cant afford it..let alone a shopping spree or even holiday...

I tell myself i just work hard for others and that's wat I'm still doing, the money i earn Will disappear within few days of my pay day and that can make me have tears in my eyes.....SO I HOPE THEY CHANGE THE LAW SOON IF NOT MAN WILL SUFFER WHILE WOMAN IS ENJOYING THE MONEY THEY SQUEEZE FROM THEIR EX HUSBAND....

TOUGH TIMES DUN LAST ....TOUGH PEOPLE DO!!!

Read the title and think bout it......everyone had their tough times and no one is spared,its just a TEST FROM GOD to his follower,just to see how our faith in him and how well we cope...

I had my tough times when my whole marriage collapse,me going to prison and much much more,those are the times i felt low and lost.Some had worse than me and some just being hit over and over again.
During these times...who whould stay for u? be there for u? anyone? someone? no one? FOR ME....NO ONE!, and i feel so outcast and dissapointed bout it... And i promised myself if anyone closed to me having their tough times....I WILL BE THERE FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT !! THAT MY PROMISED AND I WILL KEEP IT!!

What happen in life happen for a reason,when human crossed path is because we r meant to be, they maybe be there for a day,a week ,a season or even a lifetime,but they are there for a reason and we never know y...

Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly,
kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably,
and never regret anything that made you smile.


REMEMBER WHAT I SAY.....THE DARKER THE SKY THE BRIGHTER THE STARS