DOGS OF GOMEN!!!!!

Being a law abiding citizen and living in a country with lots of laws, i really respect what these officer have done to keep our nation the way it is now..but still some organisation are doing dirty tactics just to show that our taxes are being make into good use by paying them.....

To me , they are just despicable people, i tell u an incident.I dunno if its gonna get me in SHIT,but i still wanna blog bout it...ITS MY BLOG ANYWAY!!!!

I knew someone which was release for a drug trafficking offence( i have my fair share or frens right?) After release from prison and trying his best to get back to society, he was approached by a young man....This young man says that he knew him long time ago when he was doing drugs, as my fren trying to recalled , they exchange nos...THAT'S WHERE THE WHOLE THINGS BEGINS....

they exchange sms few times,but just a normal sms,asking hows things, where my fren stay and works and where he party often....THAN, One day...the young man ask if he can get supply of drugs.....My fren say dun have and every day he been asking the same question ,and even saying that he is sick and need to get a fix, if not he can go crazy and even willing to pay double or triple the amount!!! MONEY IS THE ROOTS TO ALL EVIL..

My fren thought, he was just helping the young man and can earn few extra bucks, so he try to search for it and manage to get from one of his old frens.......HE met this young man, exchange items and yes....he was nab for trafficking, just like that....SO ALL THE WHILE, THIS YOUNG MAN WAS AN UNDERCOVER NARCOTIC OFFICER... My fren was charge with trafficking and was sent to prison to serve a long long term....

That y i say, these ppl are despicable in doing all these things....they could get the lead, could not haul any drugs, and they resort to all these tactic, some narcotic undercover even used gals as bait and such, how low can they resort to? I WILL NVR RESPECT ANYONE WITH THAT BATCH AND I THINK I HAVE MY RIGHT NOT TO RESPECT U AS LONG AS I STAY OFF DRUGS AND NVR DEAL WITH ANYTHING LIKE THAT....

Have u ever wonder, where all the confiscated drugs/ unpaid licence cigarettes all gone to? they nver show how its being disposed and nobody even knew?

Maybe , they are back in our streets, maybe they ask those illegal foreigner to sell it for their flight money back home after their 3 month imprisonment?

U DUNNO, I DUNNO....... BUT THAN AGAIN.... THINK BOUT IT???

My Obsession with WORK!!!!

I dunno if these sickness even exist? do they?

ALL these years i been working my ass to proved that i can make it, i can be someone that i wanna be....I get my Title as Chef de Cuisine, I work in one of the few prestigious Italian restaurant (GARIBALDI GROUP ) I'm the only local Chef de cuisine they have and another 6 CDC are all Italian...I'M proud of it, and if nobody else feels like how i felt, i dun care....cos i have proven something to my self and tats all i care....

After all these years of WORK and WORK and WORK....i realised the last time i actually apply for leave and went on a holiday is in yr 2002 with my ex wife....its 2008 now and for freaking 6 yrs...i nvr stop thinking of work!!!! Gosh! i myself could not believe that i actually do it...

I guess that's Wat i called, obsession with work.....I guess money is a factor too, i wanted to save for TIA ,and barely had enough for myself... Those who thinks CHEF earns alot, i say BALLS TO U...

Working gave me sense of satisfaction and entertainment,no 2 guest are alike, no 2 food are the same,maybe abit similar? yes i agreed...but nvr the same....I NVR spend Chirstmas,Chinese New Year,and most of the holidays at home...its always work work n work......

Due to my working scheduled, i lost some good frens or even gf...but than again, i never regret, U cant take my work? GET LOST...U cant take Tia? GET LOST...U wanna question my answer?Get lost.....U wanna constant argue with me? GET LOST...U wanna be sticky and says i cant spend time with u?GET LOST.....I BEEN SAYING LOTS OF GET LOST TO A NUMBER OF PPL.....simply because, i am living my dream now and not only dreaming......

When is the time we dun need our relatives?

Have u guys felt like this before ? sometimes i do and i believes some of u will oso felt the same way....

I have a fren ( close fren) who once told me before,He dun need any relatives as long as his 5 siblings stick together....lets call my fren..ANDY....

Andy is a divorcee and staying with his parents after his divorced, Andy had 5 closely knitted siblings, 3 boy and 2 gal.... 2 of Andy siblings got married and stays on their own and only left another 2 stays with him at Andy parents place.
The problem started when Andy DAD remarried to another woman without Andy moms approval, than all the problem starts.Being the eldest,Andy worry alot bout this problem and been losing sleep bout it, wats the worse could happen? divorced? its easier said than done, Andy mom is not working and taking care of her grandchildren and Andy dad is the sole breadwinner....and if divorced really happen, all the responsibility will be passed to Andy....
Andy relatives ( the dad side) seems to be against the idea of Andy dad marriage and will always tell Andy mom to be patient and such, or even talk to them when needed........SUDDENLY.....all change, the relatives which used to side Andy moms turn around and support the other woman( we called her...hmmmph BITCH ok?) SO some other Andy relatives supported the Bitch and get closed to her and even invited Bitch to Andy relatives gathering and wedding...Andy got puzzled on the sudden change of his relatives,Y ARE THEY EVEN SUPPORTING SOMEONE WHO BROKE UP PPL MARRIAGE??? Andy was angry and still as a jovial guy he acted like nth happen with his HERAN TAK HERAN attitude.... Andy told his siblings no matter wat, the 5 will be together...
One of Andy cousin recently call Andy younger brother and ask to meet at Mac..This cousin is the same age as Andy ,he is one of the few refine man with good background,beautiful kids and a stable career..SO, he started to talk to Andy younger bro and tell him things bout life and such,dun do tattoo,take drugs,play truant,fight and got lock up......Andy on the other hand was a juvenile delinquent, he had a tattoo wen he was is sec 3, playing lion dance, mixing with the wrong company and get lots of trouble in sch and with the police and the Cousins was like a good student , tuition and play piano at home..( I would rather play truants than play the piano....)This cousin was oso trying to coax Andy younger brother not to believe wat Andy mum told him ( as this cousin was oso supporting the BITCH)
Andy sister and the other brother( we call him....BOTAK) was so angry and wanted a confrontation but Andy stop them and ask them to be cool bout it,Andy says y we wanna make ourselves angry bout all this, this are all nonsense and we all just wait and see wat happen next...Botak and the rest of the sibling listen to wat Andy says and just playing the waiting game........for now
Andy told his siblings,WE DUN NEED THESE RELATIVES WHICH SIDE THE BITCH AS THESE RELATIVES DIDN'T FEED ANY OF US WHEN WE R YOUNG, SO WE DUN HAVE TO WORRY EVEN IF WE WANNA IGNORED THEM FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES...WE JUST HAVE EACH OTHER TO RELY..

Andy was so pissed with this shit that he was telling himself, he wont go to any of his relatives outing anymore and even if he go, and if he saw the BITCH over there, he will spit at her face without thinking of the consequences anymore....Andy mixed around alot during his younger days and he believes, to fight for his family pride and dignity is something u have keep and fight for it...EVEN IF IT MAKES HIS RELATIVES HATE HIM....he dun care anymore...

Andy got this massage for all his relatives....IF U NOT HELPING THE FAMILY,DUN HELP AT ALL.......dogs never bites the hands that feeds them,but if u are not the hand, the dogs dun care!!!!!!

ps...BITCH, DUN U EVER LET ANDY SEE U, COS ANDY GONNA HUMILIATE U LIKE U NEVER BEEN HUMILIATED BEFORE...u wanna play game,Andy will play with and when Andy start his game...ANDY SWEAR THIS UPON BOTH HIS LATE GRANDPARENTS.....BITCH, U DUN WANNA MESS WITH ANDY.......

TO THE WORLD U MAY BE JUST ANOTHER PERSON,BUT TO ONE PERSON, U ARE THEIR WORLD!!

"TO THE WORLD U MAY BE JUST ANOTHER PERSON,BUT TO ONE PERSON, U ARE THEIR WORLD"


How true is these words which i just wrote? some would say its not,but many agreed to it.....

We might not realised it, but sometimes, things we do for someone means alot to them just read the following story....


It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.

He said he was in a hurry, as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.


I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.


While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.


He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are'?

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, ''She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left. I had goose bumps on my arms and thought, '! That is the kind of love I want in my life'.

True love is neither physical nor romantic.

True love is acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message.

This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

In this senario, the wife is the old man world.....and the man is living in his world....how many of us would do like that?...

TO THE WORLD U MAY BE JUST ANOTHER PERSON,BUT TO ONE PERSON, U ARE THEIR WORLD , after what i been thru in life, im not ready to be anybody world yet.....

We meet people everyday in our daily life..... we have frens in every stages of life and we have people or relationship that at times affect our life....

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done..
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on..

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season..

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put w hat you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

This is for SPG ( Sarong Party Gal)

This blog is dedicated or directed to all SPG( no matter how u living in denial) I still call u SPG

Definition of SPG Sarong Party Girl (also known as SPG or Sarong Party Girl)from a dictionary.................. is a derogatory term used in Singapore and (to a lesser extent) in Peninsular Malaysia.
It describes a local Asian woman (e.g. Chinese, Malay, Indian) who usually dresses and behaves in a provocative manner, and who exclusively dates and prefers white men. This can be considered a variant of the Pinkerton Syndrome. The term first achieved international notoriety after the 1994 publication of Jim Aitchison's book "Sarong Party Girl", which offered a satirical portrayal of the SPG and related aspects of Singaporean culture

Definition of SPG from Ah BENG .............SARONG PARTY GIRL/SPG
A pejorative term describing local girls who will only go out with Caucasians. The stereotypical “SPG”, as she is usually abbreviated, is extremely tan, and skimpily-dressed


Definition of SPG from ME............they just a disease and crap OH...WE EVEN HAD JOKES BOUT SPG

How many Sarong Party Girls does it take to screw in a light bulb? None. Sarong Party Girls don't screw anything that's yellow (they only screw kuai lo).


Throughout my working career, i came across lots of SPG and SPG wannabe..They will only date and lay their eyes on WHITE..There are 2 types of SPG that we can see,

1) Fugly....they one dat date ang mo cos they r ugly and only ang mo can screw
anything that wears a skirt and lipsticks!!
2) Atas ones... they r the one which thinks that local man are not a good lover
and wanted to marry ang mo,their mission is do or die!!
AFTER THIS 2 CATEGORY ,THERS ARE SEPARATED INTO SOME OTHER SUBS CATEGORY....

I work, mingle and even stay with few ang mo myself and do u know wat they think of our SPG.? To them SPG is someone they F%+# FOR FREE!!! thats wat they think, firstly cos ang mo are stingy and wont pay for sex, so that's y they dun mind.
When u talk to SPG, no matter where they come from,ang mo kio, bishan, penang,sarawak or anywhere else....they speaks with a freaking funny accents, an accents they tot makes them sound and be cool, but by actual fact it sounded like SHIT babe......
They dress differently,walk differently and talk differently....but to me, they are no different from CHINA GAL U SAW WALKING IN GEYLANG..
HEY, its true ...but the major different is that CHINA GAL takes money from these man they with and get screw..BUT SPG pays for the ang mo and still get screwed!!!!DUH
I saw many times when it comes to dinner, the SPG will pays for the ang mo and OMG! these ang mo is not that brad pitt kind of ang mo,they are the kind which cant even hook up gals back in their country and suddenly they become exotic in SG....

SPG ,SARONG PARTY GIRLS OR WAT EVER U WANNA CALL THEM...To me u still a diseases and forever a crap..if u not happy with wat i wrote....GO BACK TO MY TITLE PAGE..THIS BLOG IS CALLED.....THIS IS MY BLOG AND I SAY WAT I WANT...

I STUMBLE UPON THESE ARTICLES...

read bout it and u see the truth in it...



I Was Dumped by My Partner
Were you dumped by your girlfriend/boyfriend? Asked someone out but was turned down? Told someone that you love him/her and the answer was “although you are an interesting person, you're just not the one for me”?

Self-confidence and Being Dumped
What most people do when they are dumped is that they start to search for a logical explanation or a reason for what happened. Unfortunately this usually leads them to searching for and finding something wrong within themselves and this serioulsy damages their self-confidence.

Usually, the main reason behind feeling bad after a break-up is a lack of self-confidence. After all, if you were sure that you are a great person who doesn’t deserve to be dumped, you wouldn't have related rejection to a problem within yourself. Instead, you would've found another explanation for it.

The truth is, in some cases the problem may not really lie with you, but with your partner. Just read further and you will see for yourself.

Why Was I Dumped?

The following lines will open your eyes to facts that you may not have been aware of before. After you understand them, you will discover that getting dumped may not be that bad at all.

Love and compensation: The person who dumped you is just a human who is governed by the rules that govern all other humans. One of the main reasons that makes this person fall in love is to compensate for some of his own weaknesses; so if you loved someone who is a methodical thinker, he may dump you if you were very similar to him simply because he may want someone more spontaneous and creative to compensate for his rigid way of thinking. Thus, although you are smart and intelligent, you were still dumped because your partner needs to compensate for his weaknesses and not because you are bad . If you think that the person you fell in love with is superior then wake up and realise that all humans have unmet needs that they need to compensate for, the only difference is that it may not be that visible for some of them.
His/Her unconscious criteria: I have said before that everyone has subconscious criteria for choosing people he falls in love with (see the psychology of falling in love for more information on this). This means that if someone didn’t fit these criteria, the person can never really love the other person even if he was the greatest ever. If one of these criteria was something like “she must be blond, or he must be tall" and you don't fit that, you might get dumped even though there's really nothing wrong with you!
There Is Nothing Wrong with You
The conclusion we can make from all of this is that you could get dumped for many reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with you. In my "book how to get over anyone in few days" i used this concept a lot by convincing the readers that they weren't dumped because of not being worthy or because of being unneeded and the effect was so powerful. In some cases you should even feel pity for the other person who is just searching blindly for a way to compensate for his flaws instead of someone who would really be a dedicated and loving partner. Most importantly, be confident and know your own strengths. If you become confident enough, being dumped won't have any effect on you.





SO, GETTING DUMPED IS SERIOUSLY NOT A PROBLEM AND U DUN HAVE TO BE ALL EMO BOUT IT

Tia Graduation

2 yrs have past and tia graduated from sch....It was held at Swiss Hotel SG and the ticket cost $50 ,they making money man...Tia insist that i go so i just put aside the awkwardness bout seeing my ex wife,new hubby and go cos tia wanted me to go...

One incident happen, while me ,my ex and the hubby was finding tia, her fren which is behind her, asking tia" is that your brother?"( reffering to me) tia answered" no la,thatsmy daddy, i have 2 daddy,this and this". We all acted like we never hear wat she was saying but deep inside me, i realised that tia,accepted the fact that, she had 2 daddy and 1 mommy....

She was performing in a dance and i uploaded the video of her dancing and picture we took... tia, Daddy will always love you till the end of time..

Andri

Will this HAPPEN IN SINGAPORE?

I know i write a lot bout the Gov, how much of a dictator they are and one party ruling and such....SINGAPORE IS REALLY A "FINE" CITY( meaning every Singaporean who lives here will get or issue a fine for one things or another.Car park fine, late payment fine, traffic ,radio and TV fine,income tax fine, never go IPPT or RT oso kena fine,even late payment of water can get fine......HAIX, REALLY A "FINE" "FINE" CITY....

ERP is getting so bad and expensive that i could not afford to drive and most ppl( Singaporean ) cant afford taxi too, try driving to work from 8 to 9.30 and some ERP starts at 7 am, stupid ppl. I really hope those implementing ERP THEIR GRANDCHILD NO BUTTOCK( YES I CURSE U,SO WAT CAN U DO??????

Did the unexpected!!!!!!

I cant explain y, but at times i just wanna spend time alone with tia and do things together,just me and her.....maybe its just a way for me to tell and show her i will nvr neglect her? maybe i just tired of the attention i get and wanted to give her all the attention i want?maybe i just wan her attention? maybe maybe maybe.......in one of the trip we did, was a trip to NIGHT SAFARI...OMG,it was such a ripped off...the ticket was so damn expensive and a family of 5 Singaporean will find that a luxury trip instead of a family trip man......seriously,think bout it...........

I was spending quality time with her and wen on the way out ther is this show by some guys from Borneo , group of fire eaters and dart shooters and dance...tia ask me.." Daddy, u dare or not to do that"? i say.." of cos tia"... and she answer..."Daddy i wanna see".....OOPS!!!!!!

SO, wen they ask for a volunteer, nobody put up their hand and tia insist me on putting it up.....guess wat? I did... i did put up my hand and the guys came down and get me....

THE REST IS HISTORY ......I DUNNO Y I DO IT? BUT I DO IT FOR U TIA!!!!!

time is all we need

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'

DAD: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.

SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the man said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'If you must know, I make $50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $25?'

The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.

'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

I am what I am

At first i dun think of this as a problem but i guess....its really a problem now.I realised it first when CHEF SITI commented on my behaviour,she says something like..Andri,i know u are not someone who flirt but your friendliness towards the opposite sex is sometimes too much that it can be seen as u are flirting and giving them hope....did i? maybe i didn't realised but maybe i did...

Maybe my friendliness is too much,but that's how i treat guys or gals alike,I'm always like that.SHOULD I CHANGE? if changes is easy, i change long time ago,if being friendly is bad, should i stop being friendly? I DUN WANNA BE SEEN AS A FLIRT!

I was just being nice and being me,does not mean after ppl know me from TV,i have to be stuck up like some of them...I'm not even a star or a celebrity,I'm just being WHO I AM AND WHAT I AM!!!!!

Gal or Guys to me is the same, i treat them the same and no difference at all,at time i do even kiss customers or friends on the cheek( not guys la) the one that i have feeling for will be the one to see tia and tia have to like her...cos if she dun like her than no point of being together,I will listen to tia,she is my eyes and my mouth....she will be the one choosing not me,cause i can adapt to whoever she choose but she might not be adapting to whoever i choose.....

So please dun judge me for my behaviour,cos I'm just a man who at times makes mistakes......

Argument is healthy

The couple that fights the most is the one most in love... it shows they care enough to notice the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When you stop fighting it means you stopped caring




Its been awhile since i update the blog and i came across these versed written by a divorced mother of 2 kids,HOW TRUE IS THAT VERSED?

Most will not agreed but i strongly believed that its Damn true.....we all argue,quarrel and fights at times in relationship and its all because we noticed the fault or mistakes that been done, and wen we say it out or point at it?thus the argument erupts and than u start making your points and explain...Argument is healthy babe,if your partner just leave u alone and follow whatever u wish for..i suggest he or she gets a DOG.

Wen we argue, we want our partner to know and realised,we are not happy with Wat she did or say,2 adult in a relationship will have argument and trust me its healthy cos at the end of the day....U GUYS KISS AND MAKE OUT( passionately..lol)

Even our teeth and tongue at times makes mistakes and bite each other.....

Me @ work

My sis drop by with her hubby for a celebration and she took pictures of me in action.The one place that im very comfortable at....KITCHEN...Its my world,my place and my home......

AYU magazine write up

Sorry for not updating the blog so long, Recently i did a food column with AYU MAGAZINE a new lifestyle mag..I like the interview , the food i did and the photo taken of me and the food....

SAYUR LODEH WRAPPED WITH CABBAGE
KETUPAT WITH PRAWNS AND GARLIC SAUCE
RENDANG IN RED CHILLI AND LINGUINE PASTA

They ask me to do the traditional malay food and play with the idea of cooking and representing it... hope u like the pic and the mag out since last month...lol

My Life

The Best Life

My Life

The sufferings
The joys
The worries
The dreams
I promise myself to try
I promise myself to go through
I promise myself to accept without prejudice
Embrace courage
Embrace learning
Embrace actions
Fulfill life with love
Fulfill life by paying grace forward
Live with resilience now and forever
With no regrets
With no fear

LONELY CELEBRATION

After 1 month of not so complete fasting, comes the big day,,children looking forward to it,mum busy cooking and dad with last minute maintenance of the house....everybody in my family was watching tv and giggling away except ME.

After work,i came home and straight to the room, lying and feeling down.. i dun understand y too...TIA wont be with me, and the feeling of loneliness struck so bad.

On the day itself... i lie down on the bed without even coming out to eat,i miss going out with just my family... i know that i only get that feeling in 2001 but that 1 time with my own famliy really makes a differnce and with tia not with me, i felt worse.....some frens asked me out but i lied and say tia is with me, im going out with parents and bla bla bla....im sorry

I JUST DUN FEEL LIKE DOING ANYTHING EXCEPT SLEEPING......GOD it feels so bad and sad and i hope.....it wont happen again

Warrior GONE

The opposition plays only a marginal role in Singapore, where it complains of limited access to the pro-government mainstream media and restrictions on public assemblies.

Jeyaretnam was to appear in the High Court on October 15 to seek an order that a by-election be held for a vacant seat.

G. K. Pamela, another of Jeyaretnam's relatives, said the court challenge was related to Jeyaretnam's desire to enter parliament again.

"That was his wish," she told AFP in tears. "Such a good man. Why did God take him?"

Jeyaretnam's long-time ally and Reform Party executive, Ng Teck Siong, said it would be "very hard to find another man to fill his shoes".



He passed away this morning and wen all of his family members became silences 1 family will be HAPPY, happy that the bug on their body finally lost, the bug that constantly makes them worry and sick gone away.Im sorry SIR,I nvr wanted to label u as a bug,instead u are a WARRIOR, a man who makes some of us realised how "well" we treated by the ruler....(I JUST RECEIVED THE PAY OUT CHEQUE LAST NIGHT, HAPPY LAH..BUT AFTER 7 HOURS,RULER INCREASED THE ELECTRIC BILL!!!!!!DUH.Than give me for wat? might as well pays for my next month bill right?

MR JB was and icon, a great fighter and the voice of the minority(THE OTHER FAMILY IS THE VOICE OF MAJORITY) he fight in wat he believed in and how many ppl dare to that.

I met him once in person while i was a chef in an outlet, hE CAME to eat with a fren and wen his fren ask for the bill,i was there telling him.SIR..LET ME HAVE THE HONOUR TO TREAT U FOR LUNCH, and he was thanking me and asking for my namecard,thats the closest i get to him..

Like wat his relatives say, Y? do god have to take him, he was a good man...YES MAAM, i totally agreed with u,god loves him and take him away from the suffering he got from the OTHER family which owns SHIPYARD.TRANSPORTATION.BUILDINGS.LAWYER FIRM AND MORE....and still wanna make the ppl suffer by "PAYING N PAYING"
GOD BLESS HIS SOUL AND WEN 1 MR JB PASSED AWAY, THERE WILL BE ANOTHER 5 RESURFACE...

Would we guys felt intimidated?

Hi guys, just wanted to ask opinion bout stuff... if u met a gal which is richer than u, more confident than u, drive a more expensive car than u and better dress and looks than u...would u feel intimidated and carry on pursuing her?

How many of u would and how many of u wont? i guess its a 50-50 answer i will get cos if i were to be in that situation.. even im contempleting on wat to do next?

To pursue her, u have to come to terms bout others telling ppl that u with her is just because of wat she have and not wat she is...and she will oso be thinking bout, do u really love or have feelings for her? or just wanting to have a share of wat she had?
By not pursuing... u will waste a chance of getting back the love she had for u . and giving away a chance that she might not really care if u are rich or poor,as long as u love her....

Its something so simple yet so delicate but its not something to be taken lightly..so would u guys hold back or pursue?

ANAK= CHILD

FOR TIA QISTYNNA

30th January 2008 u be exactly 6 yrs old and daddy separated with mummy exactly 6 yrs too, yes dear.. its hard on u,daddy know .Now u been asking mummy and daddy, y we divorced? y daddy dun wanna come back to mummy? does daddy love mummy anymore? and u even tell daddy,that daddy cant get married till u grown up...
Daddy know the day Will come when u ask this question, but daddy always thought that it wont be so soon but now u already started to ask...I hope u dun ask daddy all that cos the question will just make daddy sad and tears will start falling again...

Mummy got married again, Tia already had a new DAD and i hope u treat him good and with respect cos your new DAD is a good man, he promised to take care or u and mummy.Mummy and Daddy already on talking term and we promised to give u the best that we could, to some... daddy spoilt u, but if daddy didn't spoilt u...who else can daddy spoilt? Daddy always buy u gift and present and seldom shout or scream at u,Even at times daddy is having financial problem,daddy still obliged with your request for gifts and toys,Daddy do all that is just for one reason only and that is to make u happy,YOUR HAPPINESS MEANS THE WORLD TO ME TIA ...cos, daddy felt that daddy wronged u..Daddy brings u out to this world and makes u wonder..Wonder y u have 2 dad and 1 mummy? y daddy is staying with granny and not mummy? y u must follow daddy on weekend and mummy on weekdays?

Daddy nvr thought of marriage and maybe daddy wont. If that's Wat makes tia happy. Daddy always refer tia as my princess cos no one can or will replace u in my heart, u always be my princess,Yes daddy knows at times daddy scolds u or even shout,but that is for your own good
.
Daddy hope one day , tia will be proud to have a daddy like me,proud to tell others that tia had the BEST DADDY.

DADDY HOPE, ONE DAY...TIA BE A GREAT DAUGHTER AND WILL LOVE DADDY ALWAYS..

You're The Reason I Live And The Reason I'd Die
You're the Reason I Smile Yet Break Down & Cry
You're The Reason I Keep Going And The Reason I Fall
Cause Without you In My Life I'm Nothing At all.
luv u always Tia

China tainted milk

This are some of the product that being recalled back cos of MELAMINE tainted milk, please read till the end and see wats being advise by SINGAPORE HEALTH AUTHORITY................



Nestle Nes D/Stick Mini Vanilla
Nestle Nes Distick Mini Choco
Meiji Ujikintoki 2978
Meiji Umakabo Chocolate
Meiji Family Pack-Green Tea
Meiji Chestnut & Redbean
Bairong Grape Cream Crackers
First Choice Calcium Sesame Crackers
First Choice Calcium Saltine Crackers
First Choice Calcium S Onion Crackers
First Choice Calcium Seaweed Crackers
Ginbis Party Animal Butter Bisc
Ginbis Party Animal Seaweed Bis
Ginbis Party Animal Cnut
Ginbis Animal Biscuit
Kraft Oreo Wafer Sticks 18s
Kraft Oreo Wafer Sticks 5s
Kraft Oreo W/Stick Wh Choc 18s
Kraft Oreo W/Stick Wh Choc 5s
Nabisco In A Biskit Chicken
No Frills Wafer Blueberry
No Frills Wafer Chocolate
No Frills Wafer Peanut
Pei Tian Cream Biscuit
Silang Natural Oat Cracker
Dove H/Nut Alm & Raisin Choc
Dove Hazelnut Choc
Dove Milk Chocolate
M&M Choc Candies Plain%
M&M Choc Candies Peanut%
M&M Choc Candies-Plain
M&M Choc Candies-Peanuts
M&M Funsize Milk
M&M Funsize Peanut
Mentos Bottle Yoghurt Promo Pk
Mentos Bottle Yoghurt
Snickers Peanut Chocolate%
Snickers Snacksize Bars Pnut 5
Want Want Milk Candy
Take One Baby Bites 24s
Take One Baby Bite Ck Vg
Take One Baby Bite Carrot
Nestle Milk & Berry Stars Crl
Dutch Lady Ster M Lf Banana
Dutch Lady Ster Mk Lf Plain
Dutch Lady Ster Mk Lf Choc
Dutch Lady Ster Mk Lf Sberry
Dutch Lady Ster M Lf Hnydew
Dutch Lady Ster M Lf Hnydew
Dutch Lady Ster Milk Plain
Dutch Lady Ster Mk Lf Choc
Dutch Lady Ster Mk Lf Sberry
Dutch Lady Ster M Lf Banana


PLS TAKE NOTE -SINGAPORE HEALTH AUTHORTY WARNING.....ALL MEN ARE ADVISED NOT TO SUCK CHINA GIRLS BREAST AS THE MILK MAY CONTAIN MELAMINE!!!!! LOL

my dear fren

I dedicated this blog to my dearest fren PAT

U took your bags and left for england after your failed relationship,I think its a big step u took and just drop wat u achieved in SG and go to a foreign land to make a living,I suppose some of us opposed to the idea of u leaving but most of us cant do much as u already set your mind...

U fall in love with someone deeply, got hurt and go... we all missed the laughter,the sweet ang mo gal,who is there for her frens if they need help and ideas, your ideas always help us around, your laughter always cheer us up and your beleive in the word" EVERYBODY DESERVED A SECOND CHANCE" really wake me up..I dun complain or sigh on my misfortune and downfall, as much im being ignorant, i listen tentively on wat u say to me... u know wen to put my feet on the ground when my heads get too big.. and lastly...U BELIEVE IN ME.....U believe my cooking and my food. u encourage me to excel and push me forward... u supported me wen ppl condemn me...thnk u so much patricia

My first pesonal catering was cooking for u and our frens at your open hse.. u like the food and they love it too...its give me a strong encouragement to push forward..

Now u gone, not gone from us, but away from us, i hope u doing well in england and i represent the rest of our frens... we all miss u here in SG

and thnks for being a wonderful fren

Andri

H-A-P-P-I-N-E-S-S

HAPPINESS - words or feeling that u enjoy,happy and glad that it happen

The real QUESTION is... how long can happinese last or is there an everlasting HAPPINESS??????

To me frankly there is NONE, nothing last forever and so does HAPPINESS. Tia is my HAPPINESS now,ELEVEN is my HAPPINESS now,COOKING is my HAPPINESS now.. would it last forever?
Tia will grow up, get married and left me,ELEVEN is still too early to judge and COOKING ? How long can i hold on to it?
Even RELATIONSHIP does not last,we will die and leave our love one, Now i even wonder how many married couple had their HAPPINESS?

Yes, they are HAPPY FAMILY,but wat bout the individual happiness? The DAD,MOM,KIDS,GRANDPARENTS,IN-LAWS or even RELATIVES...can we be happy or assure that they are HAPPY?

RELATIONSHIP? as fast as its starts..it can end the next day, We though our partner loves us,but they found someone new. The mom tots she found a good husband,but he cheated on her,The dad thought she found a loving wife,but she too cheated on him..and it goes on and on....so where is the HAPPINESS?

GOD created man and woman,but GOD didnt makes us stick to one man or woman...GOD gave us the money and assets we had but GOD dint gave us HAPPINESS that we seek.Money is needed but they are not everything.

HAPPINESS TO ME IS SHORTLIVED AND THATS WAT I WILL REMEMBER.

JUJUR

SOng lyric which is good and meaningful...

JUJUR = tell me the truth if u dun love me
by Radja( Indonesia Band)

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Tinggalkan aku
Bila tak mungkin bersama
Jauhi diriku lupakanlah aku
Selamanya

HARI RAYA Once again

Muslim round the world is having their fasting season and once again AIDILFITRI is round the corner..this is the worst time for me as 7 yrs altogether..It means i only had Tia to celebrate with me. I manage to get 1 year of AIDILFITRI as a HUSBAND and 7 YEARS as a SINGLE FATHER..
I still feel sore every year as im not able to celebrate as a family for TIA and i hope she understand it too..I will dress u in the nicest clothes, i will buy u the nicest shoe.I promised u that wat MUMMY can get for you, i get u the same or even better.. U be my princess for that day i promised...
The first AIDILFITRI she celebrate with me and my ex is when she is still a baby and after that its just me and her every year...luckily i have my family which brings us around or else i dunno where to bring her to.
This year will be like any other year, daddy promised Tia that im going to make u a happy gal and we are going to enjoy ourselves...

SINGAPORE — Most bus and train journeys except those for children, students and national servicemen, will see fare changes from 1 October 2008

Again again again ................WTF,WTH they thinking bout again? may those who approved this rot in hell( GOD i hope u grant my wish)

Every single things go up... only SG SALARY capped is not cos due to the various nation invasion to work in SG, CHINA, NEPAL,INDIA,SRI LANKA,THAILAND and many many more...jod all they take, they become rich and SINGAPOREAN still must slog like hell.. thats all because we are rule by 1 king,we are still not a republic but just one hell pathetic country rule by 1 hell of a MONEY MINDED KING....

Even when they increased the Fare, the petrol price decrease...so y my daughter transport company didnt gives me back a rebate? I dunno how others take it ,but for me.... I will NEVVER vote for The KING ANYMORE.....vote oso i suffer, nvr vote i oso suffer.....no DIff..........

Eleven@bussorah

Took over in may 2008 and its bout 3 month since i running it,Initially it was damn slow,but slowy its picking up... well,its not easy running it as there are so many things to do and care about... the menu,the food,the price, the marketing,the groceries and such....

The last chef sell fusion food and im bringing ITALIAN in bussorah st....ppl was telling me WTH im thinking bout selling ITALIAN in ARAB area.But with patience and determination, it really paid off...I could not remember how many painkiller i took,just to be present and cooking over there...I only have 2 staff in the kitchen and 2 staff on the floor( due to budget constrain) LOL

It takes awhile for ppl to come for my $13.90 set lunch and ala carte dinner..but we now busy most of the days during lunch crowd...thnks to GOD.

Now im promoting the RAMADHAN SET DINNER @21.90+ ,Thanks to BERITA MINGGU which feature my place in their sunday paper...we have a fair share of muslim coming to eat...its really tiring for me but the sattisfaction it gives me when ppl enjoy your food is really something which i cant describe.....

Thanks to few of my frens which help me with Marketing, and with my poster..I cant make it happen without u ppl....Thanks for those which came to try my food and if its not up to your standard, please come again and give me a chance to cook for u one more time......

I wanna clasp my hand and wish all of u my sincere gratitude for the understanding and chance u entrust me by prparing your food...

And to those who have hatred for me, let it go , it wont help much for both of us..U dun have to tell ppl that im a PLAYER and SUCH...let them judege me themself and im happy with wat i have and who im seeing ....... if u think i did u wrong in spoiling your marriage with the gal( U know wat u did) ....let GOD punish me and not by you....U know where i am ,confront me if u wan, just dun be a KEYBOARD WARRIOR!

WHY NO SECOND CHANCE FOR ME..new paper on 7th september

I read with disgust bout the story on FUAD RAHMAN...It happen everywhere in SG,the YELLOW RIBBON PROJECT as much as it sounded so good, it does not help ex convict totally...cos lots of Gomen. body is not ready to accept it totally... i dun think u find ex convict in GOV ORGANISATION?

When even the GOmen dun wanna employ them? wat makes them sure that local company will? DUH!!!!!!!

For the case of FUAD RAHMAN was axed from being one of the performer in the HARI RAYA SHOW( cos there a lot of VIP) is a one hell of a lame excuse even if it comes MAJLIS PUSAT .... Y do u judge him cos of his past and not cos of his achievement and determination? DUE TO PPL LIKE U ... EX CONVICT TURN AROUND AND ASKING THEMSELF,Y DO THEY NEED TO CHANGE WHEN SOCIETY ALREADY HAVE A CERTAIN MINDSET OF THEM.....

So wat if he spots a tatoo? i met ppl who have tattoo on their body and now teaching religious class, i met ppl with a dark past and now an IMAM which lead ppl to pray in mosque, i met ppl with tatoo and dark past but a heart full of GOLD...so y THE HELL DO THESE PPL BEING JUDGE FOR THEIR PAST MISTAKES?

we are all human being and we dun judge ppl based on that, If having VIP is the reason y FUAD is not allowed to perform... i rather see FUAD in action than seeing the VIP... if the VIP were afraid that their life is in danger cos one of the performer was an ex convict...Y DUN U MR VIP,SIT AT HOME AND WATCH THE SHOW FROM THE COMFORT OF YOUR OWN HOME.

Food n woman----similarity but never the same

Today im goin to write bought woman n food.After so long working n cooking my ass off in the kitchen, i came to realise that cooking n maintaining a woman is so much alike.... they both need tender,loving and care to do it...

To cook something nice, u have to have the right amount of ingredient,salt,spice and the meat or fish items must be not overly cook or undercook.... the sauce must blend well with the items and dessert must be sweet and of course the wine..

Woman, cant be overly spoilt or totally ignored too. U cant spend so much time with them or too little time with them too. U have to a well balance of TLC and too much of it will make u regrets for life and too little of it will make u lose the gal u love.... so its just lke cooking, u have to be well balance in anything u do both in cooking and in love...

BUT....most chef i know, is very good in cooking but a jerk in relationship or love life, so wat went wrong? did they overcook the dish or undercook it... i guess all of them undercook the dish.. simple? y? cause most of the time we are cooking in the restaurant thats y... and we forget that woman needs us as much as the kitchen needs us.So who do we choose? WOMAN OR WORK?

For most chef , work is their top most in the mind? cause we have to work to earn money thats y? and we man knows very well, if we din have money.... we are nothing in the eyes of ppl or woman, At times we do feel lonely and deprived, buts thats life... u CANT have everything u wan . So either u live with it or get another job....

For me i will stick to this job no matter wat it takes for me to achieve my dream and i guess this is the only job in the world that i love to do and i wanna do it well.



EVERYONE HAVE THEIR DREAMS AND I CAN BE SURE THAT IM LIVING IN MY

Not everything money can buy

Change Your Thinking

It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.

His bed was next to the room's only window.

The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end.

They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.

Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model b oats.Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fineview of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man onthe other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.

Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.

Days, weeks and months passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.

She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.


It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.< BR>
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.

She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'


Epilogue:

There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.

Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.

If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.


'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present.'




I didnt write the story nor created by me either................but i wanna share with u guys

2nd SEPTEMBER

Its 2nd september and how can i forget bout it.....I was supposed to wish a good fren,teacher and someone i truly respect cos its her birthday,and damn...i forget everything bout it, wat a friend i am .

No reason will make it up cos 2nd SEPTEMBER only come once a yr and the only reason i forget to wish is cos im wrking all alone today,my staff is on mc since yesterday,today and tomoro( extract his teeth)

To my dear CHEF SITI....I sincerely wish u a HAPPY BIRTHDAY birthday and i wish u have a good birthday and may all your wish come true,i may not be a good fren cos i forget your big day( almost all your big day in your life i forgotten) yes, i think at times i might be selfish and ignorant...but i will always be a sincere fren and u always be the person i respect most in my life.... u show me the light to my dark life, u put me where i am and with all due respect to your loving hubby,he got himself the most wonderful wife that a man could find and love, unconditional love ....

Im sorry once again that i forget to wish u on your lovely day but i hope it wont tarnish the frenship we make and i hope u be happy thru out your life as a loving wife, a responsible mother,a caring teacher and a sincere fren


HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Chef SITI MASTURA

ITs one year already

Times passes very fast and its been a year since i join CHEF SELEBRITI,Its the platform for few of us where we are actually being made known to the public. I still keep in touch we few of them, chef haryani is now a full time student @SUNRICE(follow your dreams chef) Chef akhmal,got married and being promoted as a Sous Chef @ IGGY"s, Chef khaled having is own programme called "CHEF SOS" and lastly my 2 buddy TRIPLE"As chef....alfie and amri,the 3 of us still meet and in closed contact everytime...we did shows together,magazine covers and lots more.... ....I would oso like to thnks those who directly or indirectly involved in the show as well( this wont happen without u guys) Even though i dun win the competition,,,i found 2 great buddy and few good frens,i even found a teacher(chef siti)

I hope the frenship we make will remain close intact and lets us pursue wat we love best which is cooking....



MAY WE ALL DO WELL IN WAT WE DID ..........

ELEVEN@bussorah having set break-fast for ramadhan

Im glad to inform u guys that i be doing a set menu@21.90++for the Ramadhan period....only thru reservation contact Chef Andri 92963441

chef siti

Dedicated to my teacher/mentor/guardian and a good friend

I known her when she was a judge in the show CHEF SELEBRITI,she is a good and a fair judge,she runs u down wisely when u dun perform but praised u well when u are good.Me too had a fair share or her good and bad performance highlighted by her,frankly i didnt know who she was or wat she do before but after some asking and testing her cakes which she brought along, i realised she is one very good chef and her story of how she started really heartbreaking.

She owns SITI DELIGHTS and a CELEBRITY CHEF herself.She had a long and beautiful hair and a nice and sharp face.A loving mother of 3 kids ,had a loving husband and a succesful career,she is the idol of many woman in SG and her cakes travel all the way to even many artist and even the president favorite and one of her many great achievement is to be invited to be 1 of the few pledge takers on NATIONAL DAY 2008.

She helps me,amri and alfie alot and gives us motivation and encouragement which again open doors for us and was invited to be with her in doing the first HALAL FOOD DEMO .The way she go all her way to help and encourage us is far beyond our expectation and she even kind enough to promote us in her class and let us teach in her school.

She gave me tips to improve my cakes and suggestion to improved the business,even with her busy schedule,she will answer my question and makes me feel good bout having a true frens.She even give me some advised bout my pesonal and even love lives and is truly sincere bout it..she just say,she will helped me as much as she can and not seeking anything in returned.....yes chef, for that i thnk u very much and wish u all the success....

ON BEHALF OF THE TRIPLE A ...I WANNA THANK U

EVERY TUESDAY IS A PAY DAY

KACHIING! KACHIING!.................Every tuesday ,SG getting richer by the millions...u know y?

Monday ---- TOTO
Tuesday---- OFF
WEDNESDAY--- 4D
THURSDAY---- TOTO
FRIDAY ----- HORSE RACING
SATURDAY---- 4D/HORSE RACING
SUNDAY ----- 4D/HORSE RACING

The above table does not include/ Soccer bets/F1 bets/ Scratch cards and many many many more.....and lastly IR IN 2009/2010.... SO BY THAN SG IS NOT ONLY A GAMBLING CITY,BUT GAMBLING REPUBLIC......

The only non gambling day is tues( i think they give face to MUIS) but other than day all day betting.... so thats where they count how many ticket they eat and how much they earn....cool right?

I rather beleve they should build theme park/disney land/water world instead of casino ,just to bring in the foreigners.....right? but of cos....wat they really one is money money money money money and more money.......

we will have a new sg...REGARDLESS OF RACE,LANGUAGE OR RELIGION... SURE GAMBLE HUAT AH!