This is for SPG ( Sarong Party Gal)

This blog is dedicated or directed to all SPG( no matter how u living in denial) I still call u SPG

Definition of SPG Sarong Party Girl (also known as SPG or Sarong Party Girl)from a dictionary.................. is a derogatory term used in Singapore and (to a lesser extent) in Peninsular Malaysia.
It describes a local Asian woman (e.g. Chinese, Malay, Indian) who usually dresses and behaves in a provocative manner, and who exclusively dates and prefers white men. This can be considered a variant of the Pinkerton Syndrome. The term first achieved international notoriety after the 1994 publication of Jim Aitchison's book "Sarong Party Girl", which offered a satirical portrayal of the SPG and related aspects of Singaporean culture

Definition of SPG from Ah BENG .............SARONG PARTY GIRL/SPG
A pejorative term describing local girls who will only go out with Caucasians. The stereotypical “SPG”, as she is usually abbreviated, is extremely tan, and skimpily-dressed


Definition of SPG from ME............they just a disease and crap OH...WE EVEN HAD JOKES BOUT SPG

How many Sarong Party Girls does it take to screw in a light bulb? None. Sarong Party Girls don't screw anything that's yellow (they only screw kuai lo).


Throughout my working career, i came across lots of SPG and SPG wannabe..They will only date and lay their eyes on WHITE..There are 2 types of SPG that we can see,

1) Fugly....they one dat date ang mo cos they r ugly and only ang mo can screw
anything that wears a skirt and lipsticks!!
2) Atas ones... they r the one which thinks that local man are not a good lover
and wanted to marry ang mo,their mission is do or die!!
AFTER THIS 2 CATEGORY ,THERS ARE SEPARATED INTO SOME OTHER SUBS CATEGORY....

I work, mingle and even stay with few ang mo myself and do u know wat they think of our SPG.? To them SPG is someone they F%+# FOR FREE!!! thats wat they think, firstly cos ang mo are stingy and wont pay for sex, so that's y they dun mind.
When u talk to SPG, no matter where they come from,ang mo kio, bishan, penang,sarawak or anywhere else....they speaks with a freaking funny accents, an accents they tot makes them sound and be cool, but by actual fact it sounded like SHIT babe......
They dress differently,walk differently and talk differently....but to me, they are no different from CHINA GAL U SAW WALKING IN GEYLANG..
HEY, its true ...but the major different is that CHINA GAL takes money from these man they with and get screw..BUT SPG pays for the ang mo and still get screwed!!!!DUH
I saw many times when it comes to dinner, the SPG will pays for the ang mo and OMG! these ang mo is not that brad pitt kind of ang mo,they are the kind which cant even hook up gals back in their country and suddenly they become exotic in SG....

SPG ,SARONG PARTY GIRLS OR WAT EVER U WANNA CALL THEM...To me u still a diseases and forever a crap..if u not happy with wat i wrote....GO BACK TO MY TITLE PAGE..THIS BLOG IS CALLED.....THIS IS MY BLOG AND I SAY WAT I WANT...

I STUMBLE UPON THESE ARTICLES...

read bout it and u see the truth in it...



I Was Dumped by My Partner
Were you dumped by your girlfriend/boyfriend? Asked someone out but was turned down? Told someone that you love him/her and the answer was “although you are an interesting person, you're just not the one for me”?

Self-confidence and Being Dumped
What most people do when they are dumped is that they start to search for a logical explanation or a reason for what happened. Unfortunately this usually leads them to searching for and finding something wrong within themselves and this serioulsy damages their self-confidence.

Usually, the main reason behind feeling bad after a break-up is a lack of self-confidence. After all, if you were sure that you are a great person who doesn’t deserve to be dumped, you wouldn't have related rejection to a problem within yourself. Instead, you would've found another explanation for it.

The truth is, in some cases the problem may not really lie with you, but with your partner. Just read further and you will see for yourself.

Why Was I Dumped?

The following lines will open your eyes to facts that you may not have been aware of before. After you understand them, you will discover that getting dumped may not be that bad at all.

Love and compensation: The person who dumped you is just a human who is governed by the rules that govern all other humans. One of the main reasons that makes this person fall in love is to compensate for some of his own weaknesses; so if you loved someone who is a methodical thinker, he may dump you if you were very similar to him simply because he may want someone more spontaneous and creative to compensate for his rigid way of thinking. Thus, although you are smart and intelligent, you were still dumped because your partner needs to compensate for his weaknesses and not because you are bad . If you think that the person you fell in love with is superior then wake up and realise that all humans have unmet needs that they need to compensate for, the only difference is that it may not be that visible for some of them.
His/Her unconscious criteria: I have said before that everyone has subconscious criteria for choosing people he falls in love with (see the psychology of falling in love for more information on this). This means that if someone didn’t fit these criteria, the person can never really love the other person even if he was the greatest ever. If one of these criteria was something like “she must be blond, or he must be tall" and you don't fit that, you might get dumped even though there's really nothing wrong with you!
There Is Nothing Wrong with You
The conclusion we can make from all of this is that you could get dumped for many reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with you. In my "book how to get over anyone in few days" i used this concept a lot by convincing the readers that they weren't dumped because of not being worthy or because of being unneeded and the effect was so powerful. In some cases you should even feel pity for the other person who is just searching blindly for a way to compensate for his flaws instead of someone who would really be a dedicated and loving partner. Most importantly, be confident and know your own strengths. If you become confident enough, being dumped won't have any effect on you.





SO, GETTING DUMPED IS SERIOUSLY NOT A PROBLEM AND U DUN HAVE TO BE ALL EMO BOUT IT

Tia Graduation

2 yrs have past and tia graduated from sch....It was held at Swiss Hotel SG and the ticket cost $50 ,they making money man...Tia insist that i go so i just put aside the awkwardness bout seeing my ex wife,new hubby and go cos tia wanted me to go...

One incident happen, while me ,my ex and the hubby was finding tia, her fren which is behind her, asking tia" is that your brother?"( reffering to me) tia answered" no la,thatsmy daddy, i have 2 daddy,this and this". We all acted like we never hear wat she was saying but deep inside me, i realised that tia,accepted the fact that, she had 2 daddy and 1 mommy....

She was performing in a dance and i uploaded the video of her dancing and picture we took... tia, Daddy will always love you till the end of time..

Andri

Will this HAPPEN IN SINGAPORE?

I know i write a lot bout the Gov, how much of a dictator they are and one party ruling and such....SINGAPORE IS REALLY A "FINE" CITY( meaning every Singaporean who lives here will get or issue a fine for one things or another.Car park fine, late payment fine, traffic ,radio and TV fine,income tax fine, never go IPPT or RT oso kena fine,even late payment of water can get fine......HAIX, REALLY A "FINE" "FINE" CITY....

ERP is getting so bad and expensive that i could not afford to drive and most ppl( Singaporean ) cant afford taxi too, try driving to work from 8 to 9.30 and some ERP starts at 7 am, stupid ppl. I really hope those implementing ERP THEIR GRANDCHILD NO BUTTOCK( YES I CURSE U,SO WAT CAN U DO??????

Did the unexpected!!!!!!

I cant explain y, but at times i just wanna spend time alone with tia and do things together,just me and her.....maybe its just a way for me to tell and show her i will nvr neglect her? maybe i just tired of the attention i get and wanted to give her all the attention i want?maybe i just wan her attention? maybe maybe maybe.......in one of the trip we did, was a trip to NIGHT SAFARI...OMG,it was such a ripped off...the ticket was so damn expensive and a family of 5 Singaporean will find that a luxury trip instead of a family trip man......seriously,think bout it...........

I was spending quality time with her and wen on the way out ther is this show by some guys from Borneo , group of fire eaters and dart shooters and dance...tia ask me.." Daddy, u dare or not to do that"? i say.." of cos tia"... and she answer..."Daddy i wanna see".....OOPS!!!!!!

SO, wen they ask for a volunteer, nobody put up their hand and tia insist me on putting it up.....guess wat? I did... i did put up my hand and the guys came down and get me....

THE REST IS HISTORY ......I DUNNO Y I DO IT? BUT I DO IT FOR U TIA!!!!!

time is all we need

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'

DAD: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.

SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the man said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'If you must know, I make $50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $25?'

The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.

'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.