DOGS OF GOMEN!!!!!

Being a law abiding citizen and living in a country with lots of laws, i really respect what these officer have done to keep our nation the way it is now..but still some organisation are doing dirty tactics just to show that our taxes are being make into good use by paying them.....

To me , they are just despicable people, i tell u an incident.I dunno if its gonna get me in SHIT,but i still wanna blog bout it...ITS MY BLOG ANYWAY!!!!

I knew someone which was release for a drug trafficking offence( i have my fair share or frens right?) After release from prison and trying his best to get back to society, he was approached by a young man....This young man says that he knew him long time ago when he was doing drugs, as my fren trying to recalled , they exchange nos...THAT'S WHERE THE WHOLE THINGS BEGINS....

they exchange sms few times,but just a normal sms,asking hows things, where my fren stay and works and where he party often....THAN, One day...the young man ask if he can get supply of drugs.....My fren say dun have and every day he been asking the same question ,and even saying that he is sick and need to get a fix, if not he can go crazy and even willing to pay double or triple the amount!!! MONEY IS THE ROOTS TO ALL EVIL..

My fren thought, he was just helping the young man and can earn few extra bucks, so he try to search for it and manage to get from one of his old frens.......HE met this young man, exchange items and yes....he was nab for trafficking, just like that....SO ALL THE WHILE, THIS YOUNG MAN WAS AN UNDERCOVER NARCOTIC OFFICER... My fren was charge with trafficking and was sent to prison to serve a long long term....

That y i say, these ppl are despicable in doing all these things....they could get the lead, could not haul any drugs, and they resort to all these tactic, some narcotic undercover even used gals as bait and such, how low can they resort to? I WILL NVR RESPECT ANYONE WITH THAT BATCH AND I THINK I HAVE MY RIGHT NOT TO RESPECT U AS LONG AS I STAY OFF DRUGS AND NVR DEAL WITH ANYTHING LIKE THAT....

Have u ever wonder, where all the confiscated drugs/ unpaid licence cigarettes all gone to? they nver show how its being disposed and nobody even knew?

Maybe , they are back in our streets, maybe they ask those illegal foreigner to sell it for their flight money back home after their 3 month imprisonment?

U DUNNO, I DUNNO....... BUT THAN AGAIN.... THINK BOUT IT???

My Obsession with WORK!!!!

I dunno if these sickness even exist? do they?

ALL these years i been working my ass to proved that i can make it, i can be someone that i wanna be....I get my Title as Chef de Cuisine, I work in one of the few prestigious Italian restaurant (GARIBALDI GROUP ) I'm the only local Chef de cuisine they have and another 6 CDC are all Italian...I'M proud of it, and if nobody else feels like how i felt, i dun care....cos i have proven something to my self and tats all i care....

After all these years of WORK and WORK and WORK....i realised the last time i actually apply for leave and went on a holiday is in yr 2002 with my ex wife....its 2008 now and for freaking 6 yrs...i nvr stop thinking of work!!!! Gosh! i myself could not believe that i actually do it...

I guess that's Wat i called, obsession with work.....I guess money is a factor too, i wanted to save for TIA ,and barely had enough for myself... Those who thinks CHEF earns alot, i say BALLS TO U...

Working gave me sense of satisfaction and entertainment,no 2 guest are alike, no 2 food are the same,maybe abit similar? yes i agreed...but nvr the same....I NVR spend Chirstmas,Chinese New Year,and most of the holidays at home...its always work work n work......

Due to my working scheduled, i lost some good frens or even gf...but than again, i never regret, U cant take my work? GET LOST...U cant take Tia? GET LOST...U wanna question my answer?Get lost.....U wanna constant argue with me? GET LOST...U wanna be sticky and says i cant spend time with u?GET LOST.....I BEEN SAYING LOTS OF GET LOST TO A NUMBER OF PPL.....simply because, i am living my dream now and not only dreaming......

When is the time we dun need our relatives?

Have u guys felt like this before ? sometimes i do and i believes some of u will oso felt the same way....

I have a fren ( close fren) who once told me before,He dun need any relatives as long as his 5 siblings stick together....lets call my fren..ANDY....

Andy is a divorcee and staying with his parents after his divorced, Andy had 5 closely knitted siblings, 3 boy and 2 gal.... 2 of Andy siblings got married and stays on their own and only left another 2 stays with him at Andy parents place.
The problem started when Andy DAD remarried to another woman without Andy moms approval, than all the problem starts.Being the eldest,Andy worry alot bout this problem and been losing sleep bout it, wats the worse could happen? divorced? its easier said than done, Andy mom is not working and taking care of her grandchildren and Andy dad is the sole breadwinner....and if divorced really happen, all the responsibility will be passed to Andy....
Andy relatives ( the dad side) seems to be against the idea of Andy dad marriage and will always tell Andy mom to be patient and such, or even talk to them when needed........SUDDENLY.....all change, the relatives which used to side Andy moms turn around and support the other woman( we called her...hmmmph BITCH ok?) SO some other Andy relatives supported the Bitch and get closed to her and even invited Bitch to Andy relatives gathering and wedding...Andy got puzzled on the sudden change of his relatives,Y ARE THEY EVEN SUPPORTING SOMEONE WHO BROKE UP PPL MARRIAGE??? Andy was angry and still as a jovial guy he acted like nth happen with his HERAN TAK HERAN attitude.... Andy told his siblings no matter wat, the 5 will be together...
One of Andy cousin recently call Andy younger brother and ask to meet at Mac..This cousin is the same age as Andy ,he is one of the few refine man with good background,beautiful kids and a stable career..SO, he started to talk to Andy younger bro and tell him things bout life and such,dun do tattoo,take drugs,play truant,fight and got lock up......Andy on the other hand was a juvenile delinquent, he had a tattoo wen he was is sec 3, playing lion dance, mixing with the wrong company and get lots of trouble in sch and with the police and the Cousins was like a good student , tuition and play piano at home..( I would rather play truants than play the piano....)This cousin was oso trying to coax Andy younger brother not to believe wat Andy mum told him ( as this cousin was oso supporting the BITCH)
Andy sister and the other brother( we call him....BOTAK) was so angry and wanted a confrontation but Andy stop them and ask them to be cool bout it,Andy says y we wanna make ourselves angry bout all this, this are all nonsense and we all just wait and see wat happen next...Botak and the rest of the sibling listen to wat Andy says and just playing the waiting game........for now
Andy told his siblings,WE DUN NEED THESE RELATIVES WHICH SIDE THE BITCH AS THESE RELATIVES DIDN'T FEED ANY OF US WHEN WE R YOUNG, SO WE DUN HAVE TO WORRY EVEN IF WE WANNA IGNORED THEM FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES...WE JUST HAVE EACH OTHER TO RELY..

Andy was so pissed with this shit that he was telling himself, he wont go to any of his relatives outing anymore and even if he go, and if he saw the BITCH over there, he will spit at her face without thinking of the consequences anymore....Andy mixed around alot during his younger days and he believes, to fight for his family pride and dignity is something u have keep and fight for it...EVEN IF IT MAKES HIS RELATIVES HATE HIM....he dun care anymore...

Andy got this massage for all his relatives....IF U NOT HELPING THE FAMILY,DUN HELP AT ALL.......dogs never bites the hands that feeds them,but if u are not the hand, the dogs dun care!!!!!!

ps...BITCH, DUN U EVER LET ANDY SEE U, COS ANDY GONNA HUMILIATE U LIKE U NEVER BEEN HUMILIATED BEFORE...u wanna play game,Andy will play with and when Andy start his game...ANDY SWEAR THIS UPON BOTH HIS LATE GRANDPARENTS.....BITCH, U DUN WANNA MESS WITH ANDY.......

TO THE WORLD U MAY BE JUST ANOTHER PERSON,BUT TO ONE PERSON, U ARE THEIR WORLD!!

"TO THE WORLD U MAY BE JUST ANOTHER PERSON,BUT TO ONE PERSON, U ARE THEIR WORLD"


How true is these words which i just wrote? some would say its not,but many agreed to it.....

We might not realised it, but sometimes, things we do for someone means alot to them just read the following story....


It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80s arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.

He said he was in a hurry, as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.


I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.


While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.

As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.


He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are'?

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, ''She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left. I had goose bumps on my arms and thought, '! That is the kind of love I want in my life'.

True love is neither physical nor romantic.

True love is acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message.

This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.

In this senario, the wife is the old man world.....and the man is living in his world....how many of us would do like that?...

TO THE WORLD U MAY BE JUST ANOTHER PERSON,BUT TO ONE PERSON, U ARE THEIR WORLD , after what i been thru in life, im not ready to be anybody world yet.....

We meet people everyday in our daily life..... we have frens in every stages of life and we have people or relationship that at times affect our life....

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done..
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on..

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season..

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put w hat you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.