Sunday, May 31, 2009

Race,Language or religion!!!!!!



We say the pledge every morning while in school and we say those words every single day, we pledge that we never differentiate the RACE/LANGUAGE/RELIGION as we are all Singaporean and we are all human,cut any race and colour and the blood is still red..

I have come across this topic over and over again, cross culture marriage and relationship.....WHO TO BE BLAME? the couple? the society mindsets or our parents? Parents tend to forget the fact that as long the couple respect each other culture and religion,nothing can go wrong bout it.......We all believe in GOD.yes we all DO! in a certain time...do u think GOD never think of these problems might arise one day? do u think GOD is so naive that he makes different religion and colours and make sure they dun mix and get together ? Of cos he did and i dun think he wanna tell his children that u can only love your own kind...i think that's rubbish...LOVE is universal and i dun think so GOD wan us to suffer just because of language/race or religion.....Most of us, are born into the religion and some seek to find their belief in later years but most stick to their parents belief till death..

We seen a number of cross culture couples and most of them i seen are happier than the couples who married their own....not to disrespect anybody or family,but u can see it yourself......

God nvr wants his children to suffer and def finitely every parents wan their child to be happy with the chosen partner,the only problem in cross culture marriage is wen either 1 is a staunch CHRISTIAN ,CATHOLIC or MUSLIMS.....these posers more problem than any...cos of the believe and the way they brought up..... If GOD feels that this person is better off marrying a different race, i guess he will one day do that.......

I go with my heart and i will follow wat my heart says...when my mind is set, not even anyone can change that.....GOD....this is your child begging u and asking u ...IS IT A BIG FAULT TO FALL FOR SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR OWN??

Monday, May 18, 2009

Trust in GOD always!!!!!


I asked for Strength.........
And God gave me Difficulties to make me strong.

I asked for Wisdom.........
And God gave me Problems to solve.

I asked for Prosperity.........
And God gave me Brain and Brawn to work.

I asked for Courage.........
And God gave me Danger to overcome.

I asked for Love.........
And God gave me Troubled people to help.

I asked for Favors.........
And God gave me Opportunities.

I received nothing I wanted ........
I received everything I needed!

Trust in God. Always !

Friday, May 8, 2009

shaved the hair------throw the bad luck!!!!



hi , i been keeping quiet bout what been happening ....Eleven@bussorah is closed due to the fact of the rental and the thought of it really shaken me,someone wanted to take over the place selling middle east cuisine and pay us the take over money... we accepted after thinking for so long and trying to find a place to relocate ,but not this moment yet...we did have few offer from agents and frens...we see how it goes

for me, im teaching a lot in sch and offices...have 4 sch to teach now and 5 office this 2 weeks, so im occupied with things...

I was having the thoughts of shaving my hair and throw whatever bad luck i had, when ELEVEN@BUSSORAH is picking up the business,the rental goes up too..so i when home one day, took out my hair clipper and shave it ... u wanna see how it look like? I SHOW U HOW I LOOK LIKE NOW....

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Spare the cane ,Spoil the child


At 5 am in the morning im still awake after what happen at 1 am today,i was sleeping bout 11 plus today and tia falls asleep outside,thinking she was tired after i brought her out ...i leave her as it is..

Suddenly i woke up at 12 plus and realised i never had night coupon on the van and thinking of not getting a summon for the van, i went down to tear the coupon.Never did i realised that the coupon ran out and i must walk to the petrol station to get 1.My sis call me and say , oi! your daughter walk up and crying,looking for u..I tot is a small matter and she will go back to sleep...damned i was wrong, the next call was from my EX saying that she is on the way to pick tia up now....

I was so shocked,angry and pissed ,i mean really pissed with tia.Its like,y do u wanna cry and called your mom and makes her come down????

I never canned her before,i pamper her to the extend i think , its too much.So i went back home and scolded her, she cried...and the next thing i know my EX sms me and says she is outside my house. so i look at Tia and tell her straight that u can go home now and dun come and sleep at daddy place anymore, i never meant it but tia was crying, i say i wont pick u up this Sunday and no more anything at all for her,not even her favorite kuda kepang show...when she see i was angry, she says DADDY ...NO, I WANNA STAY HERE AND IM SORRY...I was still angry at that time and just pull her to the door and pass her to the mum and i went in...I dunno wat to do and i regret every action i made, but wat pisses me off, when she is at my EX place and when my EX left her with the maid or the parents, she wont cry or even bother bout wat time my EX comes home .But Y SHE IS MAKING A BIG FUSS WHEN I WEN MISSING FOR AWHILE?

Its not easy, raising kids up and now i know how all the moms felt raising children up...